Dear Coleen: I'm 40 and want kids but don't want to scare off young boyfriend

A forty-year-old woman is seeking advice from Coleen regarding her desire for children. She is currently in a new relationship with a younger man and fears that disclosing her family plans may pressure him or scare him away. Due to her age, she feels the decision must be made quickly, yet she remains hesitant to discuss the matter, fearing the potential impact on the stability of their burgeoning romantic connection and his reaction to the news.